This is about being tied up – and not in an officey, phone-call type of “tied up”. How well do you know your pride flags? Take our quiz here. There’s a whole community and they even have their own flag. Bears are guys who are generally thicker and hairier – a bit like a bear.
Vers are those guys who like it both ways. Tops or Vers Tops are the ones who do the penetrating. “Bottoms” or “Vers bottoms” are guys who generally take or receive the D.